I get this too..Full sleeve tattoo on my one arm, earrings, somewhat of a "biker" look I guess you would call it. I just smile and be as nice as possible
I actually look forward to playing alone..My pace, no one else yappin'..Its a great time to get away and enjoy yourself, as well as learning alot about yourself.
One thing I do when I'm alone is always, and I mean always let other...
I got the cheapest Nike's I could find at a factory outlet store ($40)
I wear them every round, and they are the most comfortable shoes I own!..It is by no means necessary, but they are nice to have..I like having them so I don't have...