Back to tantrums and on course behavior.......
If I pair-up with strangers, I try to be Mr. Cool and stay calm and pleasant at all times. Even if they are cursing and out of control, I refrain. It doesn't matter how bad I am playing..... I can play bad and shoot in the 80's and my partners for the day wouldn't know it was a bad day. For all they know, I shot a nice 83 or whatever.....I always avoid sharing my HC unless I am pressed, so they never know I'm playing bad. for all they know...it was a good day. If they say nice round....I smile and thank them regardless of how I feel inside.
I've never thrown clubs in anger and I'd like to think I've never had a tantrum. If I'm playing with my regular group, I may yell and curse at the ball while it's in the air from time to time, but it's mostly funny stuff between us. I may curse at that dirty ***** ball and dare it to go into the water, but that's about it...LOL Golf for me is about having fun, so I never really get too mad. When I do swear, I like to think it's fun sarcastic swearing......LOL