Played a lot at 10 with zero help or advise. Got really bad. Quit at 13 because I did not like being bad and my temper was making even me uncomfortable.Picked it back up last year of college with some buddies. Decided that it was about being out there and having fun. And I did have fun. I also learned how to suck and still be an excellent part of a 4-some. This allowed me to play for business and enjoy some of the best courses in the country -- even though I sucked. Sometime in my late 30's I decided I'd like to get good at the game and not be a good guest or host and good at having fun. I did not get good. I did get frustrated. I was still an excellent addition to a 4-some or buddy trip, so I still enjoyed the game.
Golf can be fun if you change your expectations. If you need to be good at it in order to enjoy it, you are in for a world of pain and frustration.
I really wanted to be good at playing the piano. I sing and know it would be cool to play. I could not do what it took to even become competent at playing the piano. I quit lessons and trying to learn before I hated looking at the thing in my living room. Maybe golf is you piano.