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Originally Posted by
Rick Martin 
I'm starting to hate myself for being Mr Rabbit Ears - I'm bothered by everything, it seems.
Velcro glove opening, whispering conversations, the flag waving in the wind while I'm putting (partner doesn't hold the flag down when holding the pin).
I don't say anything, but the noises are killing me.
Don't get me started on the sasquatch footprints on my putting line.......
Rick,
What turned things around for me years ago was listening to my father-in-law rant over his perception that he was 'cheated out of first place' on his senior league. He recounted a laundry list of slights that happened throughout the season that put his team 1.5 points out of first place. It was like he chronicled each and every match of the season like the whole league was against him and his partner winning the league.
I'm thinking, wow, this is supposed to be fun and why are you letting what happened with a group of old guys playing a leisurely sport ruin your life? Then my thoughts quickly turned to, Oh my, please don't EVER let me be THAT guy.
For you, it almost sounds like it's snowballing. If you analyze anything bad that happens to your game during a round, none of what you mentioned had anything at all to do with any particular stroke you made. Truth be told, the only thing that truly bothers me on a golf course is having to putt through my shadow on a 4-footer to save par. That's it! Everything else that happens out there I'm completely ok with.
dave