Boy everyone is ganging up on @Golfingdad. There were many, many bad calls or non-calls this year. Quite a few that affected the outcome of games. Several were in the last play of the game that either ended the game or allowed one team to have another shot to win a game. The Chargers are not responsible for the ineptitude of the refs, so there should be no shame from them or their fans. A bad call, or non-call, is equally important at the beginning of a game as it is at the end of the game because every play is important. We all get caught up in the plays and calls at the end.
I have voiced my opinion of refs this year, and it is getting worse. Goodell is part of the problem.
I don't think anyone was saying San Diego should feel shame because of that call. I think people were saying the should feel shame because the game came down to a field goal and they were playing a team with 17-18 starters sitting out of the game :). Either way, they are in the play offs and maybe they win the super bowl, who knows.