How do you know he didn't think of the consequences? You have no idea what was going through his head.
You're right, I don't.
So there are two possibilities.
1 - He was childish and didn't think of the consequences of his actions.
2 - He was aware of the consequences of his actions, considered them and chose to go forward with said actions.
If he did #1 okay fine. He was childish but one can learn from that and move forward.
If he did #2 he is a self centered piece of shit and doesn't deserve for anyone to give him the benefit of the doubt.
FYI, I DO NOT THINK THAT HE FITS INTO CATEGORY #2. I THINK HE SIMPLY ACTED ON HIS IMPULSES.
If the wives did this then there were likely issues in their marriages to begin with.
No doubt that is correct.
If it hadn't been Dustin, it would have been someone else. Cheaters cheat. It's what they do.
People have affairs at most any age. It's about making moral decisions, not youthful stupidity.
This thing didn't stem from him having affairs. It stemmed from him getting caught snorting blow.
Big difference. Adultery isn't a felony. Snorting blow is.