So 3 years later, I'm back on the hunt. We had 3 good years at Great River Road Golf Club in Nauvoo, IL. It was a pain to get to and the accommodations are spartan, but the owners were friendly, highly accommodating, and worked with us to recreate our original 30+ years as closely as possible. Alas, they have felt the bite of the economic downturn as so many have and have put the course up for auction.
I'm still looking into the great recommendations here, but I'm hoping some new folks will weigh in with new ideas too.
Criteria:
On-site accommodations
Reasonable prices (nothing over $300/person for 3 nights and 2 rounds of golf)
Friendly atmosphere (in other words, they won't mind us having a few beers)
Relatively convenient to a major airport