I agee that it's not simple to play with retired golfers. They bored with us soon. My suggestions are going to club to meet and practice with others at your skill level and reading guide books and videos of pros. Moreover, you can refer some useful tips below:
Don't waste your money on expensive clubs until you have reached a basic level of competency.
Don't go near a golf course until you have reached a basic level.
Get lessons from a qualified professional.
Learn the three fundamentals
Watch the pro's.
Practice.
Learn the rules of golf and basic golf etiquette.
I hope that these tips help you avoid costly mistakes many people made, including myself.
Jen