Help....I'm exhausted. I think I've destroyed what little game I had trying to "keep up with the Joneses". I'll be as brief as possible.
I've been playing 25 years, badly. Used to have a huge slice, tamed it somewhat. Took a lesson here and there. Got as good as I've ever played a few years back. Brought the handicap down to 15, shoot in the mid 80's fairly often throwing in a low 80 here and there. I play a pretty weak grip, with a very armsy/handsy swing. I strike my driver and FW woods good. My irons are bad. I hit a 7 iron 130-135, anything longer than 6 is a waste of time.
Anyway, I'm improving. My short game is where I score, one putting very often.
Well, it seems testosterone has reared its ugly head. My playing buddys are are longer than me with their irons. It drives me crazy. I'm 44. I have one friend that hits about 2 clubs stronger, he's my age. The other buddy is 3.5 clubs stronger, he's 48. IT DRIVES ME CRAZY. Both are built about like me, overweight, not very flexible. They obviously strike the ball better than I do.
Anyway, I've went though lessons, grip changes, Clubs, ect, ect, trying to get close to them.
Basically what I've done is destroy what game I had with my irons. My weak, but consistant 135 yard 7 iron is history...I don't strike an iron. Period.
After my latest, greatest, club purchase, that resulted in no improvement, I've faced reality. I gotta play what I have. I had a back issue at 40 that has really zapped what little flex I had. I completely detached my left achilles in '96. I'm a lefty so thats the back leg. It's really hard to transfer on that weak azz calf.
I hope to get back to my 135 seven iron.
Heres what I'm getting at. After 20 years, can you really change your swing? How many thousand balls would it take? Should I just play what I have and work on flexibility, maybe lose a little gut?
Or make one more attempt at a swing correction that gets me hitting down on the ball(I'm a sweeper)?
Or, sell all my crap on ebay, take up gardening.....