I used to be friends with 2 conservative guys in college who claimed to be heterosexual and into girls. Both have liked to play golf.
I remember few years ago, before gay marriage became legal nationwide, when Iowa approved gay marriage, a guy from Cedar Rapids, IA was “pissed off” and said they will most likely overturn it.
I do not remember him being ever religious despite claiming to be Lutheran.
His friend who was similar to him except being Catholic, was even more homophobic and using F word. But at few times he flirted with me, brushed onto my upper legs and made jokes about having sex with him.
When I came out to them I am gay, they quickly distanced themselves. They appeared sometimes to talk about “hot chicks” but they spent more time doing time for their fraternity and they even lived together just themselves off campus for 1 year in 2 bedroom apartment.
Then later I found their profiles on match.com. Looking for women which kinda put doubt in my theory. But there is something strange I haven’t seen in other straight folks’ profiles. They appear more often in group, with their friends or families than themselves.
Also their profile description sounds almost like something I would read on Linkedin or meetup rather than a dating website. Looks to me almost as if they are looking for arranged heterosexual marriages but not really into opposite sex.
Might explain why they dumped me, because they felt I was a “threat” to their identity or relationship.
Whats your thought?