I was in a similar place just a few weeks ago, wondering if I should join a club I love to play at that’s 45 minutes away. Anytime I had the opportunity I would play there but then when I had the chance to join I began wondering if I would get bored with the same thing each time. Then I began thinking about what I had been doing. When I wasn’t playing there I was at a local 9 hole muny, probably playing there 10 times for each one at my “club” and I didn’t get bored there. I would play different tees and clubs. Sometimes play w/o a driver or at times w/ a driver and 3 other clubs. I did a lot of things to keep it interesting and had a good time.
I went ahead and pulled the trigger a month ago even though winter is coming and don’t have any regrets. You have a different mind set when you belong. It’s “my” club now and I find myself repairing others divots and ball marks on the green. I spend more time on the range and putting green because I don’t feel I have to maximize my time on the course to get my money’s worth. I’ve already met some great people to play with and I’m on a first name basis with the staff. Now my biggest problem is figuring out how to get off work during the week to get there.