Thanks for all the suggestions!
Have been reading everything I can get my hands on online, as well as Pelz, Tiger Woods. Still it seems like after amassing all the data you have to make a decision without complete knowledge.
Bought a putter (Odyssey White Steel 2-Ball) at the pro shop because I really wanted to get hands on with as many as I could -- as the feel is so important. But I don't want to pay that kind of premium for every other club.
GigaGolf seems to have good prices, a wide range and a good custom fitting model. My clubs will all be .25 inches shorter and with lies adjusted minus two inches -- which makes sense since I am 5'2" and have long arms.
The Acer TI is the only driver I found that comes in a 15 degree loft so I will probably go with that. Then, one or two Acer steel woods(5 and may-be 7), two Acer hybrids (5 and 7) and probably Power Max GX920 7,9,PW,SW irons all with graphite ladies flex.
I am leaning toward the Winn Arrow grips -- I don't like the tacky feel of the Winn wraps -- prefer the composite and the Arrows are supposed to be fairly soft, though a good composite. Anyone have any experience with the Winn Arrow?
I put together the range I thought would cover the lofts with fairly even spacing (the Pelz Short Game Bible has a very good discussion of rejiggering the traditional set and was extremely useful). Then I talked to Bill Baxter at GG who agreed with the club types and spacing but suggested the PowerMax GX920 wide sole irons instead of the Acer High Trajectory as the PowerMax are newer, and will therefore be around longer so I can fill in more irons / LW later if I need to.
It is amazing that after paying $170 for just the Odyssey putter, I can get the other 11 pieces for about $400, with graphite, upgraded grips, custom sizing, assembled in the US. (I spotted an Assembled in China sticker on the shaft of a Callaway iron in the pro shop tonight.)
Thanks to all your input plus everything I have read I am getting more confident about putting the order in.
Thanks again!