I live in Belmont California which is about 20 minutes south of San Francisco. My favorite course in the Bay Area is Cinnabar Hills in San Jose.
http://www.cinnabarhills.com/coursetour.html
I started playing golf when I was 16. My cousin played in the Junior World Tournament at Torrey Pines every summer for 3 years in a row and he taught me the ropes. I lived at the end of a driving range and played alot of golf but then got really involved with soccer and golf took a back seat for several years. I started up again about 5 years ago.
About 2 years ago I was introduced to Wally Armstrong who showed me the tempo ball. The tempo ball has changed the way I play and approach golf. It is such a simple but effective tool.
Things I have learned on the path:
1. Whether you play poorly or superbly, PLAY FAST! This means no mulligans and not spending too much time lookinf for your ball. Slow play is ruining golf. There is no need to take more than 4 hours to play.
2. Repair one divot for every divot you make on the green.
3. Talk when you walk, but when you are waiting to tee off, plan your shot instead of bullshiting.
4. Know how far you hit with each club instead of guessing or inflating your ego
5. Play the ball as it lies. That is a great way of getting better instead of improving your lie all the time.
6. Leave your cell at home, or turn it off.
7. Patience and experience rule in golf. Only extremely gifted golfers can cheat time.
8 Spend 80% of your free time on the short game. It can take a lifetime to develop a repeatable swing, but you can develop a red hot short game in a much shorter time.