Did a search on the forum and found this thread. I've been playing regularly 3 times or so a week with a guy a few years younger than me. I'm soon to be 64 and he is 58. We match up pretty well and play skins or an occasional Nassau. The last couple of months he has been desperately searching for his swing. Even resorted to re-shafting his irons, buying hybrids, taking lessons and has turned into a first class jerk. He has been intolerable, abusive and miserable to be around.
It all came to a head last Friday when he stomped off the course on the 15th hole. When my other partner and I finished the round we found him still sulking like a school kid in the restaurant of the club house. As a joke I suggested he might get a prescription for prozac where upon he unloaded a vulgar tirade and told me to screw off... A day later I got an email from him with a sort of an apology and wanted to know if I had booked a tee time for Monday. I picked up the phone to let him know he needed to find someone else to golf with because I lacked any understanding and really had no tolerance for a senior citizen, playing off the forward tees who, on occasion might break 80, cannot see how childish and selfish his actions have been. His lack of perspective as to why some of us play golf is astounding. So I had no qualms saying, "sorry pal, you and I are finished but I do hope you get your swing back at some point and looking forward to seeing you on the Senior tour"......