Let me start by saying that I love beer the same way people are passionate about wine or scotch ... or Golf.
I brew my own beer and have been doing so off and on for 15 years now. I do this so I can experiment with different styles and tweak them to my liking and just a fun process. I originally started to brew because I did not like the mass offerings 15 years ago before the craft brew explosion that we have seen.
Most people believe that beer is pretty much BMC (Bud, Miller, Coors) offerings and if this is the case they are completely missing out. As someone who loves beer, try different brews, there are 100’s of different styles that will range in flavors of Malty, Hoppy (Bitterness), Fruity, Sour, Chocolate, Nutty just to name a few.
In my opinion Beer actually works better in pairing with foods than wine ever can, but that is because it is what I am accustomed to and have many years of trying to match things. Again, most people know beer as a watery yellow liquid that have been muted over the years as these corporations try to make things cheaper, there is a time for those beers but again just so many more options … and don’t get me started on this whole light beer thing.
Also the idea that a dark beer is heavy is a large misconception. They sure can be but there are styles of dark brews that are very subtle. All matters on the grains and the amount of roast they have.
All I can say is try them. Go in with an open mind; see if your local beer stores will allow you to mix beers into a 6 pack or if you have a local brewpub, go out and get a sampler. These are great ways to experiment.
For me tonight I will be grabbing a growler of Browns (Great Local Brew Pub) Oatmeal Stout as well as their Porter. Nice beers for the cold weather!