We aren't the cold, unfeeling automatons that you make us out to be. I take it that you refuse to accept the word of
those of us who have actually worked as on course officials and have been trained for it
. Tell me, by what real world experiential authority do you come by your information?
You can include me in that same group. My Rules credentials, training and experience are extensive; I'm not going to list them, nor ask for yours. This isn't a poker game. :)
We seem to be hung up on two different points -
1. Trying to prevent a player from breaking a Rule is part of a referee's responsibility, and I have no disagreement with that what-so-ever.
2, Volunteering information on the Rules and their options to players who have not asked, and that is
not
part of the referee's responsibility, imo. This is where the warning "if you can't do it for everyone, don't do it for anyone" enters the picture. An example of this would be seeing a player proceeding correctly under 26-1a or 26-1b for a lateral water hazard and going over, without being asked, to advise him of the other (perhaps more beneficial) options of 26-1c.