i am a real beginner when it comes to golf (i am answering this question in self-interest because i am trying to build posting credits to be able to ask newbie questions about golf, practice and the equipment in the forum). i don't own clubs and just began taking group classes a month ago. i try to practice all of the aspects i have learned in class at least twice a week outside of class. i spend most of my time chipping and putting, have only been on the driving range a hand full of times and most of that has been hitting a 7 iron. i hit a driver for the first time last tuesday, but probably only spent a third of my bucket with the driver. i have played an executive par 3 course once and today for the first time went out with two other friends to play a full 18 hole golf course.
just going to take a quick break here and say that i have competed in various sports from 4 years old through college. i understand the integrity of the game and that it is the rules and penalties for breaking those rules that shape the game. that said there are also times where i am playing those same games with or against friends outside of competition and the rules change; penalties, fouls, even out of bounds can go out the window. whatever helps increase our enjoyment for the game and the time spent with our friends.
so back to today. i didn't keep score for most of the holes and some i would have lost count of anyways (got caught in the sand a couple of times), but best believe that i know when i parred a hole (and i was even proud of a few bogeys). there were times today when the tee shot was straight down the fairway, others when it went left or right, straight up in the air or two feet in front of me. some of those times i would take a second or even third tee shot (after that i still dropped next to the next worse ball on a hole). we weren't holding anyone up so what is the rush. i had some amazing second and third shots and a couple that went into the woods, the water or some other place i hadn't intended, if it was playable i would play it, but i even hit some provisional balls then. on and around the green we played it where it was (hit a couple great putts, missed a couple of gimmes). i tried to hit out of the sand traps as many times as it took me to do so (one great shot out and three feet from the hole, and sometimes i felt like i was going to have to re-rake the entire trap). sometimes my friends didn't feel like playing out of the sand (it didn't have any effect on my game). at the end of the day i got some sun, hung out with friends, learned about life insurance, learned that i need to get away from my fear of messing up the course and try to hit down on the ball more even if that means taking a piece of turf with it, i lost 10 balls (which makes me pretty happy because i brought 24 with me and was prepared to lose every one of them). do i have my handicap accurately calculated? nope. do i care? nope. did i pay attention when the marshall told us that the while tees have a ____ slope rating? obviously not. i'm not saying i won't want to get there, but today was about playing and not competing and i can't wait to get on the course again.