Hey Baraethon, I'm in your boat too. Im about 5'1-5'2 and 14. I also am a short hitter. I can sometimes average a nice 200 yard drive, but I'm usually 165-180. I still play from the mens and usually can par/bogey most holes. I actually find myself losing strokes on my short game.
(On my driving it really just differs, I haven't visited the range yet here in WI just the putting green. In Florida however I was hitting 200 carry with a 3 wood off the tee.)
I usually use these clubs for 350 yd Par 4s
Driver
3 wood
SW
The driver will usually carry about 185, not 100% sure since In Florida I hit about 215. The 3 wood is usually 160. Then I usually have a 15-25 yard chip. The biggest way to beat this disadvantage is your chipping. I work on putting more than anything else, but I need to get my chipping dead on. It's hard to rely on the short game so much, but once I and you grow more we'll reap the benefits.
Keep me updated on how your doing love to hear about someone in the same situation. Also to the people who said weight lifting, I agree I'm ready for it. My family is naturally short, my dad is 5'9 but he grew 4 inches in college. My brother is a Freshman in college now and has grown an inch already. My mom is only 5'1 so I might've got the bad end of the deal though...
Happy hitting!