In response to the losing your swing portion, I've found myself wondering what happened to that great golf swing last week. Once analyzing a few things, it's usually something grip related. Either different thumb position, or a weaker left hand grip, club handle too much in the palm, etc. Set things back to how I normally grip, and the swing comes back fine. Every now and then I also tend to let my left arm get out from my body causing that dreaded out-to-in slice swing! I remind myself to pull it in, and things work again.
I've yet to get "good", but I started this game in May of 06, having never golfed before, (I'm 40) so almost a year now. Initial goal was "double par", then reaching the green in par. I was a 28 handicap at the end of last year, and thru judicious practice, I am down to 16.7 at last posting. No means good, but getting better. I'm confident enough now, to be able to play with any golfer at my course, and know I won't embarass myself too much.
I start my first league this Thursday, and I've found that when I play a round of golf with better players, it forces me to be a better player, and is usually reflected in my scores. Just as long as I don't let myself get discouraged when I see these guys make perfect shots one after the other! I'm looking forward to the league helping me to better my game with the exposure to different calibers of golfers. I hate being the guy that has to spend a few minutes digging thru the rough to find his ball, or having to split off from the group to a different fairway to hit back. I take a little more time, and control to keep the ball in play, and while I may sacrifice a little yardage, the ball gets in the hole with fewer strokes.