I occasionally play with my father-in-law and some of his buddies. One of his friends has been joined a club, and has been playing a ton. He's not a bad golfer, typical "old man" type golf. Short, straight, and few mistakes. I think he's always wanted to beat me, and honestly, he has gotten better. The trouble is, when we play, I play by the strictest rules. If I make a quad, I don't call it a double.
Anyway, we were playing, and he got up about 3 or 4 strokes on the front nine, but I had come back to down just 1 after 15. He was keeping the scorecard in his cart, and low and behold, we tie after the end of the round. But when I looked at the scorecard, there was a par-4 number 17 where I had made par and he missed an 8-footer for his par, which is how I tied it up. Granted, his putt lipped out, but it didn't go in, and he had a
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plain as day on the card, so in his mind he beat me by a stroke. I wasn't going to call him out on it, because I've never been that competitive and could really care less. But I just wonder what goes on in people's mind who don't play strict rules. Do they even realize it? Do they realize when a playing partner is playing by the rules? Do they still feel a sense of accomplishment about a score when it's not valid?