Seems as though the OP was impatient and the course by no means was obligated to refund his money due to his actions.
The HS golfers were on 3 - 7 when he was just starting on 2, first, he was in no way obligated to allow the women to play ahead (I wouldn't have) and if necessary, he could've allowed them to join in.
By the time he would've caught up to the tail end of the HS kids, it might've been the 4th hole. I've seen HS kids play golf, they're usually not that bad, at least not as bad as some 100 + handicappers on any golf course on any day of the week.
So what if you had to wait? It happens to all of us all the time. BTW, most courses I play don't allow jumping around on holes or starting off the back nine unless instructed by the clubhouse or starter.