I personally believe that you cannot please all of the people all of the time. I'd say the average golfer has a worse ego than course designers. Why? Because they insist on playing a course that allows them to score rather than be challenged. After playing golf for 21 years, I'm tired of playing bland courses that don't challenge me. Now, I'm playing the tips, all the time. Eventually, I think it will help me improve my game.
I have now played a total of 13 member-guest golf tournaments over the last few years. Every single time I have played, the "Tournament" tees end up being at or near the Senior tee box. What's up with that? Clearly the older or shorter hitting members are complaining enough to get their way. It is now to the point where I can rarely hit driver because I would face too much trouble. As a result, I cannot use my distance to my advantage. Not fair in my opinion.
Whoever says you have to score well to enjoy Golf is missing the point. It's a game far more challenging the other of our more primitive sports. I don't think designers should have to have a red carpet to the green on every hole. Rewarding someone for not being able to get the ball airborn is not a real challenge in my book. I enjoy novelty and creativity of designers. Not every hole is meant to be birdied, eagled, or reached in less than regulation. I remember a story about Ben Hogan chipping down to a lower tee box in a pro tourney because the hole was too long and windy. I don't remember him complaining. People said Shinnecock Hills was way too long for a short hitter to win, then Corey Pavin took home the title with a fairway metal approach on the Par-4 18th.
This is golf, enjoy the challenge and uniqueness of each and every golf course. Because in my eyes, they are all masterpieces.
If you would like conformity, there is always tennis and basketball.