the best thing that works for me is to move everything away at the same time: shoulders arms hands and club, maintaining the triangle formed at set up. then around waist high just fold your right(left if your a lefty) elbow and bring your left arm up across your chest to alow the club to travel up over your right shoulder. just remember to make sure you bring your left arm high enough, but not too high. you should be able to see a small gap(one or two inches) at the top between your left arm and right shoulder in a mirror. practicing your backswing while standing up against a wall will help you from taking it too far inside. this will also help create the width you need for more power with your driver and woods.