I have only been on one forum other than this one and it is run by my wife. Nothing to do with golf. I am enjoying this forum, but I didn't understand about the "reputation points" either. I am glad to find out how they work.
I didn't know I could get "negative" reputation points or that I was being judged on the quality of my posts. I am not sure how I feel about that just yet. I realize that most forums need a method of weeding out bad actors, but I also like to think we all participate on here as equals.
I can't imagine saying something to someone else on this forum that could be construed as an attack or malicious. Golfers as a group have been the most courteous, friendly, inclusive sorts I have come across, so all this animosity between each other seems so out of place to me among men who share the common bond of loving the game.
If you truly love golf, you behave in a way that makes you the gentleman that golfers must be. Without the gentlemanly behaviour, ours would not be a sport that requires no referees. We call penalties on ourselves because it is the honorable thing to do. Our honor in posting correct scores, not using underhanded or devious distractions to affect our opponents, playing by the rules should permeate the rest of our lives as well.
I didn't mean to get on a soapbox, but this is important for all men who call themselves golfers. Honest disagreements are one thing, but personal attacks are quite another. Being new here, I almost decided not to post this as I think it may be presumptuous on my part, but I really like it here among all of you and want to have my say and, hopefully, help put this to rights.