Newt,
Coming from my own student experience, unfortunately a lot of teaching pros don't take the time to ask their students questions about their goals, sports background, injuries and etc. So there I would definitely concede that point and you're right. I've had teachers that basically had no plan on what they wanted to teach. One instance I told our pro for the following week we wanted to work on putting, he picks us up in the cart to drive us to the range and I ask where we're going..."we're going to work on driving". No.we're not!
If there's a way Newt I can help you out finding a teacher and what to look for let me know.