Ten years ago I was playing a small course in North Phoenix, and mistakenly hit someone else’s ball.
When I got to where I had hit the ball I immediately realized it wasn’t mine and noticed the guy looking in the vicinity of where I hit.
I quickly walked his ball back to him and apologized as much as I could, but he couldn’t help but get rude with me.
He was still barking at me when while I turned around to walk away and I couldn’t’ take it anymore.
I finally reminded him that golf is a gentleman’s game, and maybe boxing would be a more appropriate outlet for his angst if he can’t be a gentleman on the golf course.
He didn’t take to kind to someone 10+ years his junior lecturing him about being a gentleman, but it ended there.
4 or 5 holes later our paths crossed again and he apologized for yelling, accepted my apology, and thanked me for putting the situation into perspective the way I did.
Remember, Golf is a gentleman’s/woman’s game.
I have to remind myself of that numerous times a season, but in the end the game and the people that play it deserve that respect.