Same boat - have not played a 3 wood in about 5 years now, but courses I am playin gnow have plenty opportunity for a 3 wood to come into use (5 wood often too short for a par 5, or too safe on a par 4 off the tee)
From what I have seen... (but not tried)
Callaway X 2008 - very nice looking club at address. Good price.
Ping G10 - sits lovely and square at address, choice of shaft options.
Callaway FT - different looking to any other Callaway wood as has a traditional looking hosel compared to the usual S2H2 equipment.
Taylormade Burner (2007) - I have seen this in the normal and TP versions. TP has a smaller head and heavier shaft, which I preferred. Longer shaft than most worries me as I don't want a 3 wood knocking up near driver length, I want a decent gap club.
Titleist 906F4 - lovely to look at, and currently at good prices. My concern is that I sliced the shit out fo everything I hit with my old 905R driver, and concerned that the fairways react the same way. (would love a 906F4 3 wood (15.5 deg) and a 19 deg 585H to replace my 5 wood)
From what I have hit;
My old Wilson 1200 GE - Shit, just plain shit. Can't hit it for love nor money. Shaft is all over the place.
A mates Cobra - ugle head that looks dented - new Cobras look the same too IMHO
A mates Callaway Big Bertha 2007 - pretty nice, crisp feel. Ugly alignment aid when looking at it in the pro shop, but in actual use, you don't notice it. It was a reg flex when I need stiff, so resulted in a high right, but with good distance.
I am swaying towards Callway X, Titleist 906F4 or Ping G10...
All in all, there is a huge choice out there, each reacting and feeling different to the other. As I have seen, the only way to make a decision is to get out there and try the clubs - not just off a mat, actually on the course to check off a tee, tight lie, rough etc.
Hopefully you got some help from that ramble!!
Mike