I have one goal, and if I achieve that, everything else will take care of itself:
Course Management
(young players, say it with me now, COURSE MANAGEMENT!!!!)
I paly off 3, and until last year I had never shot level par. Then one day I did it by playing smart golf (COURSE MANAGEMENT!) In my last 6 rounds I have two under par and one was even par.
My game is steady, I do nothing exceptionally well, but I also have no major weakness (except my brain.) Now, instead of trying to make a birdie on every hole I play, I play the hole to ensure a par, and a birdie is a bonus. I know I will make 2-5 birdies a round, and by eliminating the trouble spots that lead to bogies and worse, I now have lower scores on a regular basis.
I
HIGHLY
encourage young players to think a bit before pulling the trigger with a 4 iron and firing at that back pin, behind the bunker, next to the water, with 6 inch rough lurking around. No birdies in that water, or that rough! When faced with a nasty shot, play to the safe side of the hole and take your chances with your putter. Par is almost assured, and birdies happen sometimes!
So, to try and get back to the topic,
my goal is to manage my game efficiently by reducing the mental mistakes
and making solid pars on hard holes, and attacking the pins when possible. In my 20's I fired at all flags, no matter what. Now, in my 30's, I fire at them when I know that if I miss, I can still make my par and move along.
It doesn't make you a wimp to play smart golf, but it will make your scores lower, and for me that is what I want.