easygrip

Thank you Lefty. Because that is exactly what they are!! Whoever is the one that voted "keep it", I pity you. Somehow, the true meaning and culture of this great game has completely escaped you!! One of the main reasons I play is because this is one of the last bastions of civilized competition, where rules and courtesy mean something. Not this rude, anything to win, "all for me" culture that we have become. If I sound like a dinosaur, so be it.

After you stroked that tee shot you should have looked that starter in the eye and told him "stick that lucky shot up your a$$!" and then looked around and said "How many of you jackazzes want to give me your money?!" I bet you would have seen a lot of faces looking down. It sounds like you've got the game to hang. I, like you get sick and tired of rude jerks. It seems like its on the rise in all facets of our society. I know that its better to take the high road, but sometimes you have to take a stand!!

I dunno... shes kinda hot...but I definitely think she's swinging a different kind of club!!

HATE IT!! Hearkens back to the day when jackasses would yell YOU DA MAN, after every swing.

LMAO.. thats too funny... Never thrown one, but I have buried the head of a few wedges on occasion. Felt like an idiot.

I've always heard good things about Ernie Els. Padraig Harrington seems to be well liked, and respected by his peers. Maybe Boo Weekly?

Who have you heard is/ was the biggest jerk on the tour? What have you heard about them that made you think so?

Gotta love him!! Favorite quote: last year at Carnoustie, asking Paul Lawrie, "How'd yew git here?(qualify) Paul's response: " I won. Here. 9 years ago." Boo's response: "oh". Classic!!

You did the right thing DS77. I can't say that I would have done the same, especially if my son were with me. I would probably still be locked up. I have worked in some sort of customer service my whole life, and while it is true that he may have had some tragedy in his life or just been having a bad day in general, there is no excuse for speaking to someone in that manner. I would not ask for anything free, just a humble, sincere, FACE to FACE apology from this jerk. Accept no less, and no more. You deserve the respect.

How did he respond?

I agree with several points already made, but I think two big ones are #1. Go with the flow. Make it fun and encourage him. I've started doing this with my own son and its seems that he enjoys it more. #2. Teach him etiquette as much as you can. I still like to think of golf as a gentlemans game, although that idea seems to be slowly slipping away.I try to teach my son not to talk while someone is lining up, swinging,putting etc., and to respect the course.I think a kids camp is a great idea. I know that htere are several in my area. That's definitely something to look into. My $0.02

I like the Open playoff. Four hole aggregate and then 18 over and over if tied, until a winner. I agree with wengerlaw. I hate wtachting all w/e and then having to miss 18 the next day.

I wil say this, make sure that your personality is compatible with whoever you get your lesson from. I had three golf lessons in my whole life up until last week. Each of the first three guys were pretty arrogant and acted like they would have rather been somewhere else. I have had two lessons in the last week with a pro who is enthusiastic, explains the swing in terms I can understand, and most importantly, does not look at his watch. He charges $50 a lesson and is worth every penny. My advice is to ask around. Check with your friends and see who they recommend. Then call the pro and ask him/ her some questions. If they are affable and ready to answer, go for it. If not, move on. My $0.02

Guitar since I was 15 yo.

I usually play with a circle of about 5 different guys, all with handicaps of 12 or lower including a scratch and a 2. None of them are rude or anything but encouraging to me. I will pick up if I ever get to double par, and if I ever birdie or par, they act like I won the Open. They will always point out good shots, and save any instruction for after the round. Behavior like this is inexcusable. Unless your'e on a tour, anybody who sides with this guy needs to re-evaluate their priorities in life. Golf is a game for most of us. A way to relax, get outside, exercise and enjoy being with our friends or family. Some of us don't have the time, the means, or the talent to play as well as we would like to. If you don't like playing with high handicappers, thats fine, but if you get stuck with one, there's no reason to act like a jerk. You can always be civil and accomplish what you want. If slow play is the issue, whats wrong with "Hey man would you mind picking up if you hit double par, so we can keep moving?" That would have accomplished the desired goal and I bet you would not have had a problem with it. If the problem was your scoring, then this should have been taken care of from the outset, and I blame your host for this. If I ever witnessed my son treating someone he just met like this on a golf course or anywhere else, I assure you that he would wish he hadn't!! I applaud your restraint.

Nobody here from Richmond?

Welcome to the board.. There is a lot of good info here.

Hey guys, Great board!! I am just picking the game back up after about six years.(had a son!) Trying not to take it too seriously, and only counting the good shots, but I have mad some adjustments to my swing and seem to be hitting much straighter, not fighting a right push like I used to. I am amazed at how much equipment has changed just over the last five years. I am currently playing with an old set of Ram FXs and an off market three wood. I told myself that I would get new clubs next season, after putting these to work. Anyway, nice to meet you guys, and any Richmond hackers, drop me a PM, and lets get together. Scott Hanback

I don't have a home course yet.

Jack... Just b/c he was my dad's favorite. I am actually a big Tiger fan.

I'm an ophthalmic technician(medical tech for the eyes) in Richmond VA