Tough Ebay question....HELP

My club sells Saturday on auction. Buyer pays, I ship Monday at 4, MD to CA. Mark as shipped. Emails OK at 5>Check email at 7, buyer wants to back out and refuse delivery. What do I do next...please help!!!!

You simply say "Sorry, the club has shipped." and refer him to his legal obligations as a purchaser.

Depends on in your description or shipping.. it says "no refunds" or not.

If you shipped it, had tracking information, etc.. then once that package gets to it's destination.. that money is yours.

Sticky situation.. which is why eBay can be frustrating sometimes.

Keep us updated, I'd like to see how it turns out.

OP here.... "no returns" is now moot, as ebay is swayed to the buyer. I wish I had that now. It is really a tool move to do this.

Doesn't the buyer still have to pay for the return shipping to you, as you went out of your way to ship the item to them before they decided to back out? If they refuse to pay, then you can always take it up with Paypal/eBay to at least get your money or the club back. I do agree however, it's quite an @$$hole move on their part.

That's why I stopped selling on ebay after doing it for 10 years. I shipped a guy a very expensive specialty tool, he used it for what he needed and then filed a complaint about a scratch (it was a used tool, duh) and sent it back. It was a scam to get "rent" a 450 dollar tool. I still buy golf gear on there occasionally but I'll never sell a thing on there again.

If you did, "returns not accepted" then unless your description of the item is inaccurate, the buyer has no choice but to accept the item.