My Girlfriend Likes Golf

[Mr22putt]

  On 12/25/2019 at 1:10 AM, downbylaw11 said:

I'd love to be dating someone who loved to play golf as much as I did, and even more so someone who was actually quite skilled at it. 

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If you're serious on finding a GF who LOVES golf....I suggest you hang out at K-Town and H-Mart on North Road in Coquitlam.

Korean women love to play golf....and some are quite skilled.

[downbylaw11]

  On 12/26/2019 at 11:19 PM, Mr22putt said:

If you're serious on finding a GF who LOVES golf....I suggest you hang out at K-Town and H-Mart on North Road in Coquitlam.

Korean women love to play golf....and some are quite skilled.

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lol, what are k town and h mart? the names sorta ring a bell, but im white so ive not been to either place.  anyways, I see tons of asian girls when I practice at eaglequest, but theyre all either 12 years old, or maybe university players who do not seem like looking for a man is any sort of priority for them if you know what im sayin.  either way, I have a gf, however she does not golf. I took her mini golfing once and she said her wrist was sore from putting lol

[Mr22putt]

  On 12/29/2019 at 1:48 AM, downbylaw11 said:

lol, what are k town and h mart? the names sorta ring a bell, but im white so ive not been to either place.  anyways, I see tons of asian girls when I practice at eaglequest, but theyre all either 12 years old, or maybe university players who do not seem like looking for a man is any sort of priority for them if you know what im sayin.  either way, I have a gf, however she does not golf. I took her mini golfing once and she said her wrist was sore from putting lol

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Google is your friend.

K-Town = KoreaTown

H-Mart = Korean grocery store...retail chain.

Just because you're white shouldn't stop you from venturing to "non-white" communities and establishments....Van City is diversified a city as there is in North America.

 

You stated. previously that you'd love to date someone who played golf and was as passionate about golf as you are...and a skilled one at golf that would be great too....so are you not happy with your current GF who doesn't like golf...never mind mini-putt.

[gregsandiego]

  On 12/20/2019 at 5:39 PM, NM Golf said:

Good luck man, I play golf to get away from my wife. We've been married 20 years, and we spend plenty of time together without me having to take her to the golf course with me. 

Funny story, this past summer my buddy and I were catching an afternoon 18 and the twosome in front of us was a man and his wife (or girlfriend I don't know for sure). I don't know what he had done, but she was pissed off at him. The #6 green and #7 teebox are right next to each other and as we drove up they were walking off the box and she was giving him an ear full. I turned to my buddy and said that's why I don't play golf with my wife. The next three holes that guy was always on the opposite side of the fairway from her, I know it was on purpose. 😜

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Yes it's a double-edged sword.I think the ideal would be a wife/girl-friend that SOMETIMES plays. 

I've seen couples that look like they always partner on the course. I think it changes the dynamic - and not in a great way.

 

 

[downbylaw11]

  On 12/29/2019 at 8:35 AM, Mr22putt said:

Google is your friend.

K-Town = KoreaTown

H-Mart = Korean grocery store...retail chain.

Just because you're white shouldn't stop you from venturing to "non-white" communities and establishments....Van City is diversified a city as there is in North America.

 

You stated. previously that you'd love to date someone who played golf and was as passionate about golf as you are...and a skilled one at golf that would be great too....so are you not happy with your current GF who doesn't like golf...never mind mini-putt.

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you say google is my friend. but if i used google to answer the question myself, I would not be continuing a conversation here on the forums

thank you for the lesson on diversity.  my gf is from dubai

i assure you, any issues i have with her are not related to golf lol

I was just saying I had a strong desire for many years to date a golfing chick. 

[Mr22putt]

  On 12/30/2019 at 7:07 AM, downbylaw11 said:

you say google is my friend. but if i used google to answer the question myself, I would not be continuing a conversation here on the forums

thank you for the lesson on diversity.  my gf is from dubai

i assure you, any issues i have with her are not related to golf lol

I was just saying I had a strong desire for many years to date a golfing chick. 

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You're welcome on the diversity lesson....lol.

As long as your GF, future wife, etc isn't hating your time spent golfing...you're good to go.....but if they resent you golfing too much....obviously you'll need to nip it in the butt ASAP.

My wife and I use to play golf often...weekly/vacations etc...but unfortunately she doesn't play anymore...I always enjoyed playing golf with her...but I also have no issues and enjoy playing golf with women.

My wife also has no issue with my time golfing...she often pushes me to play when I decide not to.

[downbylaw11]

  On 12/31/2019 at 1:56 AM, Mr22putt said:

You're welcome on the diversity lesson....lol.

As long as your GF, future wife, etc isn't hating your time spent golfing...you're good to go.....but if they resent you golfing too much....obviously you'll need to nip it in the butt ASAP.

My wife and I use to play golf often...weekly/vacations etc...but unfortunately she doesn't play anymore...I always enjoyed playing golf with her...but I also have no issues and enjoy playing golf with women.

My wife also has no issue with my time golfing...she often pushes me to play when I decide not to.

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oh I can tell this girl hates all the time I spend at the range, even though it's when shes usually working, and she definitely doesn't like me getting up early to go golfing on the weekend if she spent the night, but I've kinda made it clear I don't give a f*** and that having hobbies is good for you as long as theres balance. 

[Double Mocha Man]

  On 12/31/2019 at 7:07 PM, downbylaw11 said:

oh I can tell this girl hates all the time I spend at the range, even though it's when shes usually working, and she definitely doesn't like me getting up early to go golfing on the weekend if she spent the night, but I've kinda made it clear I don't give a f*** and that having hobbies is good for you as long as theres balance. 

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Maybe she just wants you to go out for coffee with her on the weekend.  Continue to enjoy your presence.  Why don't you surprise her this Saturday, wake up and say, "Hey Sweetie, let's go out for coffee."  It's not like it's great weather for golf.  Hey, a good double mocha at Starbucks could become a hobby.

[Mr22putt]

  On 12/31/2019 at 7:07 PM, downbylaw11 said:

oh I can tell this girl hates all the time I spend at the range, even though it's when shes usually working, and she definitely doesn't like me getting up early to go golfing on the weekend if she spent the night, but I've kinda made it clear I don't give a f*** and that having hobbies is good for you as long as theres balance. 

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Do as you wish...it's your life...but I'd say finding a golf addicted Korean GF/wife would be more suitable than telling your current GF "I don't give a f*ck"...that's a recipe for DISASTER.

Heck...... the Korean GF/wife would likely wake up early on the weekend to make you breakfast and then you both can go play golf...heck she'd likely even want to play 36 holes.

As a white guy...you can learn a lot about Koreans...there's currently a Kim's Convenience marathon on CBC right now...it's so hilarious.

Oh ya....the Korean GF/wife would also likely buy you the latest TM or Ping driver for Xmas vs. a pair of socks from Winners.

[downbylaw11]

  On 12/31/2019 at 7:17 PM, Double Mocha Man said:

Maybe she just wants you to go out for coffee with her on the weekend.  Continue to enjoy your presence.  Why don't you surprise her this Saturday, wake up and say, "Hey Sweetie, let's go out for coffee."  It's not like it's great weather for golf.  Hey, a good double mocha at Starbucks could become a hobby.

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oh of course. it's not like i tell her to f off on the weekends.  but i do have a early morning sunday thing a few times a month during the summer with my golfing buddy.  but basically since october i've been with the gf on the weekends.  

as far as not giving a f***.  you know, to an extent.  but seriously, it drives me nuts when women or men, get jealous that you have interests or hobbies outside of the relationship.  if youre spending 99% of your time on the golf course, and none with her i get it.  but if youre gone from 7am to 11am on a sunday morning on some nice days, i dont think it's a big deal, and frankly, I wish my partner to have interests and friends outside of me.  as much as it would be pretty swell for my gf to enjoy the thing i love on a similar level, i'm not just gonna kick my gf to the curb because of the off chance i could meet a korean girl.  besides, i buy my own socks at 'winners' lol