Duffers with no etiquette (playing with 2 balls)

[SouthernILGolfer]

I played alone behind a 4 some friday afternoon at a local course. It took me about until the par 4 6th hole to catch them, i saw that they were some duffers, it has a pond about 50 yards in front of the teebox and I could hear some balls bouncing off the rocks down by the pond. I finished putting on the par 5th and they saw me approach the teebox and moved to the side and motioned me to play through. I guess they assumed that since i was playing alone, i must be pretty good and didnt really get all the way out of the way so I sort of hit over them but it would have been a really bad tee shot to have come close to hitting them and I was hitting my driver pretty good and did smack one about 245 right down the right side of the fairway which still resulted in missing the green with my pw and ended up getting a 5 or 6 i think. I guess my point is that even when people allow you to play through sometimes they dont realize how much room you need or how they might not be a safe distance away. Like also on an earlier hole, i had to wait to tee off as the crew was mowing the rough between 2 holes but i was afraid on this particular hole that i would slice it and hit it toward them. It does create some stress sometimes when you know you cant miss in a certain direction in order to keep from hitting into someone even though you dont mean to hit it over there.

[Dartguy]

Yep, I would walk off the course before I would intentionally hit into anyone.

[CT207]

I guess I have no etiquette..... I usually play alone (weekdays, I rarely play weekends) and when I come upon a slower group I'll sometimes play two balls. I can't go anywhere so I'll hit both a low and a high compression ball just to see the differences. Maybe change / experiment with grip position, stance, etc. Around the green I may practice some putts or chip a little to try to improve the short game.
Generally there is no one behind me.

Although I've never asked, I've had the slower group ahead ask me if I want to play through and my usual reply is "I'm in no hurry, I don't have to be to work until 3"
I can recall accepting the offer of a play through only once......

[PooN]

You sir, are an a$$hole. End of story.

[2bGood]

I am not sure how 22 cap trusts his driver enough to think that he did not do something dangerous by hitting over a group.

Very dumb move. Please don't do it again .

Someone mentioned the idea of being waved up to hit into/over the group. This is very different as the group ahead is watching the ball / and or move off to a safe place.

As for 2 guys both playing 2 balls, if it was holding you up there is better ways to deal with it.

But on the topic, people assume 2 guys playing 2 balls or 1 guy play 4 balls takes the same time as 4 guys playing 1 ball. Of course it doesn't as there is less overlap in setup and walking to the ball time.

[Gordon McTavish]

  Rexmaster said:

I don't understand what this father is teaching his teenage boy.

And the example you set was so much better...

[alo1984]

I'm sure by now you understand what a bad idea this was. I'm sure you meant no harm at the time and I'm also sureu won't do it again. I have only been hit into like that a few times and on each occasion I promptly walked to their ball and hit it into whatever hazard was closest, be it the woods, or water. And I made sure they saw me do it. But, I never hit the ball back at them or in a direction that could harm someone else.

[ohiolefty]

The best way to deal with slow play is to call the clubhouse and ask them to address it UNLESS you can catch the group on a tee box and respectfully ask to play through.

Getting angry and doing something rash (like hitting into a group, or 'over' them) or getting so pissed that it affects your game is the wrong way to deal with it.

Now - if I could only always follow my own advice

[Rexx]

Am I the only person (well... my foursome) that will skip a hole to get ahead of a group that I (we) think is playing slow? I'm an impatient player as well, so I can relate. But, if you play when it's not very crowded, then there's always that option to skip ahead. If you decide to play when it's crowded... well... you just gotta accept the consequences.

[deronsizemore]

Wow... someone complaining about etiquette of the group ahead of them when they themselves fly a ball over said group's head. Ironic.

[steelernation]

If you hit into my direction and my Son was with me. You would have bigger problems than waiting for a long round of golf, knowing that assault is a crime, I would simply grab every club in your bag and break them, then I would complain to the pro shop that you asaulted me with your clubs and my only defense was to break all of your stix. When the cops show up, any intelligent policeman is going to take statements and see no bodily harm was done and we both walk away. You may try to sue, but its your word against another. Long story...its never worth getting into a possible scenario of violence and you did by hitting the drive. BUT since Im a logical golfer, I would let you through at first sight, if I was in teaching mode with a child.

[shades9323]

  Rexmaster said:

As you may noticed that I'm little impatient.

What are you doing playing golf? Golf is not a game for the impatient.

[NCSU_MSE]

  Rexmaster said:

I intentionally drove the ball over them to give them a warning.

Your actions were about a million times worse than those of the twosome in front of you. I take it you've never hit someone with a golf ball. Well I have, albeit on accident, and let me tell you - it's scary as hell. The sound and aftermath of hitting someone squarely with a golf ball will haunt you. Hitting into (or over) a group just because you are impatient is terrible. You showed absolutely no regard for those people's lives, and why? Because you wanted them to speed up on a day when the course (by your own admission) was backed up? Please.

[PooN]

I'd like to reiterate for page 2... playing 2 balls is really not an etiquette issue. If/when the course is backed up, playing 2 balls is not uncommon, especially for a single or twosome. What is an etiquette issue, however, is driving a ball into the group ahead of you.

I see from your profile that you are pretty much new to the game and that you're an educated person, so instead of beating you up about it, I'd just like to instill a bit of golf etiquette on you... let's make the right decisions on the course from now on now that you know how big of a deal this selfish and dangerous act was.

[mrmiller8]

Stick that dumba$$ move in the back of your mind and learn from it. The chances of actually hitting someone on a golf course aren't that great but the chance of seriously hurting someone when you hit them are pretty good. Also you might be the best 22 cap in the world off the tee.

[Bump-n-MI]

  Rexmaster said:

I intentionally drove the ball over them to give them a warning.

You are either a

-or a If somebody intentionally hits, throws, hurls, shoots, etc… anything in my direction that could potentially cause bodily harm the gloves are off…….jackass.

[Clambake]

  Rexmaster said:

I don't understand what this father is teaching his teenage boy.

I think the lesson the father was teaching was clear: don't be a stupid, inconsiderate, dangerous dick like the guy playing behind them. "

You see son, that is exactly the type of person you don't want to grow up and become. "

[cougar978]

If there's no one behind you, just backtrack and play some holes again - I'm sure no one is going to say anything to you about it, and more than likely the hole being held up will be clear by the time you get back. There's never a reason to intentionally try to harm someone by knowingly hitting over their group.