What does a typical day of golf consist of?

[progolfer90]

I have recently entered the business world and I am learning to golf. I am getting ready to golf with some co workers and my boss. I was wondering what to expect. What do you do when you aren't golfing? I heard about the drinks but is that from the beer girl or do we go get drinks after? I am a very competitive person should I show that on the course? And how much is what I wear going to affect my game and my appearance to others?

I would appreciate all the help I can get. I am one nervous fresh out of college guy. Thanks.

[chilepepper]

Just relax. Go with the flow and have fun. You'll get a feel for what the group is like

[RFetters]

You dont say what quality of course you will be playing, so first, dress well.  Wear a nice polo shirt, and tuck it in.  You should check to see if shorts are appropriate, and its very possible only pants are allowed, so make sure in advance that you are within the dress code.  Wear a belt and make sure your shirt is tucked in at all times...If you are attired properly, you will feel better on the first tee, and the impression you make will be a good one as well.

Expect that you might be playing for some money stakes, but perhaps it will be just for fun.  Be honest about your handicap, and if anything, err on the low side somewhat.  The one thing you dont want is to go out and shoot 80 after telling them you are a 20.

Watch your etiquette.   Let the others take the lead, but dont break etiquette even if they do.

For this round, I'd suggest you not imbibe at all, or very little.  Treat this outing as an extension of your job, rather than a round with your buddies.  In future rounds you might loosen up some, but remember your boss is paying attention to your behavior.

Remember to enjoy your round, but also remember this is also a chance to make a "character" impression on your boss and fellow workers.

[divot dave]

you're learning golf? then odds are you don't have a handicap at all. don't be ashamed to be transparent about your newness to the game, but no need to embellish that fact either. definitely dress competently for the course you will be playing at, but don't overdo it. brush up on some common etiquette rules, especially around the greens (like walking on someones putting line).

since you're new to the business world, and new to golf, don't try to pretend like you're an expert in any of these areas. If there's one thing old heads can detect, its when someone is being a phony (usually). So go to enjoy a professional outing on the company's dime. Maintain a relatively low profile, chime in when appropriate, ask a few questions if you're not sure in a given scenario. don't worry about playing poorly. and like someone else said, go with the flow.

[Big C]

First and foremost, don't overthink it! In it's simplest form, business golf is just an opportunity for people that work or transact business together to get away from the stresses of the workday and enjoy one another's company. As such, having a good attitude and being an enjoyable guest will serve you a whole lot better than actually playing good golf would (although the two need not be mutually exclusive).

In general, as long as you arrive on time (at least 30 minutes prior to tee off), dress well, play quickly when it's your turn, and have a good demeanor, you will be a welcome guest in just about any foursome.

There is nothing wrong with having a beer or two, but follow the lead of your boss on that one. And whether your boss is drinking Coronas or Diet Cokes, be sure to offer to buy him another one at the turn. He is paying for your round after all, and the gesture goes a long way, even if declined.

To your question about competitiveness, there is nothing wrong with taking the game seriously, but in my experience, the most competitive golfers are the least fun to be around. When in doubt, shelve your competitive instincts and just enjoy your time. Above all else, don't EVER let your emotions get the best of you, to the point that you start swearing, throwing clubs, or displaying a temper. These things happen to the best of us, but there is no place for them in a business round, and will make you look silly in front of your boss and associates.

Have fun!

[newtogolf]

Since you're new both to golf and business I'd follow Dave's advice, try to blend in, not stand out until you get a feeling for the people you're playing with.  As for being competitive, try to play you best golf, but if you're new to the game expect to struggle a bit and don't smash clubs or act crazy if you miss a shot.   Business people like to play golf because it's a great way to get to know outside the office.  Be aware that your boss may be using this as a way to get to know you better and gain some insight into how you handle yourself with your co-workers and him.

Go there with reasonable expectations regarding your golf skills and focus on having a good time.

[WUTiger]

Originally Posted by Big C

... To your question about competitiveness, there is nothing wrong with taking the game seriously, but in my experience, the most competitive golfers are the least fun to be around. When in doubt, shelve your competitive instincts and just enjoy your time. ..

I mostly agree. I would say, however, it's possible to be a serious golfer - serious about the game - without being a grouchy golfer.

As for clothing, you can always call the course and ask if there's a dress code. The staff will take special care of a beginner who cares enough to call and ask. And if it's a really upscale club, you can quietly ask the staff it it's OK to buy your boss a round on the course. Some ritzy clubs have a "no cash" policy - the member puts everything on his or her tab.

[jetsknicks1]

I originally took up golf because I realized all the guys who had the jobs that I strove for at the company I worked at golfed and there's alot of good advice here. One of the great quotes about golf is that it doesn't build character, it reveals it. Your boss will be looking to see how you react to both the good & the bad during your round. Be friendly & polite, without being an ass kisser. Observe proper ettiquite and when in doubt, ask. Your group will appreciate you making the effort. And above all, have fun.

[BuckeyeNut]

Originally Posted by progolfer90

I have recently entered the business world and I am learning to golf. I am getting ready to golf with some co workers and my boss. I was wondering what to expect. What do you do when you aren't golfing? I heard about the drinks but is that from the beer girl or do we go get drinks after? I am a very competitive person should I show that on the course? And how much is what I wear going to affect my game and my appearance to others?

I would appreciate all the help I can get. I am one nervous fresh out of college guy. Thanks.

Hidy young pup.......

I've played a TON of golf with execs, etc, etc.......

Just relax........be yourself and have fun.  Whether you have skills or not means nothing..........just behave yourself and be pleasant.  Be good company to be with.......and you're golden.