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Can a marriage between an avid golfer and a non-golfer work?


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Can a marriage between an avid golfer and a non-golfer work?  

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  1. 1. Can a marriage between an avid golfer and a non-golfer work?

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My wife hates golf but fully supports my near obsession with it.  Sometimes she gets a little testy when she sees the UPS guy frequently delivering too many club shaped boxes but I remind her how I'm claiming QVC as a dependent and she backs off.

I always make sure I make time for her and the kids so she never has an issue with my playing golf.

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Joe Paradiso

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I used to purposely pick fights with my wife because she would always tell me "Why don't you just go golfing!"  She never caught on. :-)  She also doesn't read this website.

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  On 1/2/2016 at 6:03 AM, vangator said:

I used to purposely pick fights with my wife because she would always tell me "Why don't you just go golfing!"  She never caught on. :-)  She also doesn't read this website.

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Be careful! She may be smarter than you think. What is she doing while you are on the golf course?

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Mitch Pezdek------Dash Aficionado and Legend in My Own Mind


  On 12/25/2015 at 4:50 AM, PEZGolf said:

I am sure this subject will come up again in a few years. At our club, it comes up a lot since approximately half of us  have wives who do not play. To make our marriages last, we have to constantly work at it. ****** When my wife and I first got married, my mother-in-law told me about the 3 C's that are necessary for a successful marriage ----cooperation, compromise, and communication. She is so right!

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What C's are you talking. What woman can tolerate her man using his stick and balls to play 18 other HOLES !!!

 


  On 1/3/2016 at 9:44 AM, PEZGolf said:

Be careful! She may be smarter than you think. What is she doing while you are on the golf course?

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Smarter?  Nah.  Not sure what she was doing, but all the kids look like my side of the family, I think.  Actually, the first one doesn't.....

Driver.......Ping K15 9.5* stiff 3 wood.....Ping K15 16* stiff 5 wood.....Ping K15 19* stiff 4 Hybrid...Cleveland Gliderail 23* stiff 5 - PW......Pinhawk SL GW...........Tommy Armour 52* SW...........Tommy Armour 56* LW...........Tommy Armour 60* FW...........Diamond Tour 68* Putter.......Golfsmith Dyna Mite Ball..........Volvik Vista iV Green Bag..........Bennington Quiet Organizer Shoes.... ..Crocs


I was married a few years before I was introduced to golf. My wife is happy to stay home with our daughter while I go off and play/practice. In a few years when my daughter is old enough to swing a club, I will encourage my wife to pick up a club as well, her putting should be amazing, she still thrashes me at crazy golf!

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Driver Taylormade Burner 9.5. 3W Fusion Vantage 5W Taylormade Burner.

Hybrid: Dunlop Tour Red 18. 4-SW Taylormade RSI 1. Putter Taylormade Ghost TM 880 Tour

64.14 Dunlop HDD Lob Wedge


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my wife does not like golf. i've only been playing golf for about 4 years (once in a blue moon though) and seriously only for about a year now, but i've been playing/practicing a lot because i'm loving it. 

I go to the driving range frequently and ask her if she would like to go too and that she'll have fun. one time recently i dragged her with me because she was just sleeping and lounging around. Turned out she had a blast. she doesnt remember that though, because i still cant get her to go lol.

we have only been married 3 years, but she tells me she has no problem with 3-4x per week (9 holes at a time is my game though) and she enjoys that time to herself (she's quite the introvert). She doesn't like me spending 7am-2pm at the golf course on a saturday but i dont really do that much anyways. my jam is squeezing in walking 9 holes after work a few days a week, which she doesnt mind since it only gets me home about 2 hours later than normal.

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